How Should You React...?

How should you react...?

by test_kipl11 on July 21, 2010 | Comments CL(14) FB(0)

if the person you loved had sexual intercourse with another person?

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jaeskiee / August 2, 2010 11:50PM

LEAVE.

Itsgcaaa / July 23, 2010 4:30PM

@elepjuie actually i don't see a reason why these two would lie to you when you have nothing with them. maybe if you really did love this girl you would stop putting up a front and acting like shes nothing to you when really she does. your just making it complicated,your confusing both you and her. and she made a mistake once,doesn't mean she'll make it again. people learn from their mistakes. stop living off what other people tell you,and start thinking for yourself. your "married" so get off that bullshit and start listening to yourself,and trust the person you love. if your gonna let other people get in the way of what you really feel for this girl,then your never gonna get her back.

Itsgcaaa / July 23, 2010 5:41AM

@Elepjuie hmmm,very interesting. and to me it just sounds like your assuming still. just because someone's over at someones house all the time doesn't mean anything,does it? unless you hear from those two people that they actually did something,i think you should stop assuming the worse. it's a shame how much you think of the person you love like this. obviously you don't know her that well to draw conclusions and just assume.

onelove / July 22, 2010 3:08PM

I'm not sure "how SHOULD we react" but how I WOULD react and how I've reacted in the past is I simply ask (even though I already know the answer). Of course, I never got a straight answer. Then I just let it go ...once I "know" and when I'm not left wondering, it's much easier for me to let go. This doesn't mean that it still doesn't hurt, but it would hurt less and less until I'm like whatever about it. I noticed though that no matter how much time passed by, it still bothered me to some degree.

Itsgcaaa / July 22, 2010 12:21PM

Well it all depends on how you found out. If you heard it from someone else,then how do you know its not just a rumor ? Or that your just easily assuming things. Do you know for a fact that she did?

msjonileez / July 21, 2010 10:06PM

No comment.

MisterMachicote / July 21, 2010 12:28PM

Elisa is right please give a lil background info on your situation. Cause if you love this person from a far or ya’ll have a open/dating relationship, you could ask them not to tell you about their other friends. But you really have no say

Elisa / July 21, 2010 11:22AM

1. Does the person u lv knows u love him/her?
2. Does the person and u have something?
3. Is it a open relationship?
4. It depends on what u and the person u love have?