She Left Me Because I Was An Escort TEN Years Ago! Can She Get Over It?

She left me because I was an escort TEN years ago! Can she get over it?

by cupidlies on May 26, 2010 | Comments CL(5) FB(0)

I am a 27 year old male. At 16 I ran away from home to escape an abusive environment and have been living in New York since.

I finished high school and college and was able to find a good job and a great girl. But, I never told her about my abusive past and the jobs I wound up taking to survive - pay my rent, bills, tuition, food, clothes, etc.

At a recent gathering, apparently her older gay cousin remembered me and informed her of my escort past. That was 10 years ago!

I haven't heard from my girl in the last week. I can understand the shock, but I love her and want her in my life. I don't escort anymore. How can I get her to not care of my past? She seems to be stuck on it and can't get over what I did.

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1YSL / May 28, 2010 3:59PM

Msjonileez do you really think this guy has a chance? I mean this is some Sandra Bullock shit. They may be friends someday.

Also (to the questioner)how long were you with your girl? I know you did what you did 10 years ago but how much of that time did she put in?

msjonileez / May 28, 2010 11:05AM

I think it'll take time for her. The things you did in your past were important for your future, and you are where you are today because of them.

I think one of the ways you can get her to forget about your past is to reason with her. What you did to get by back in the days has nothing to do with the past 10 years you've given her.

jaeskiee / May 27, 2010 10:53PM

That sucks... I think you should try explaining to her the whole situation. But give her some time to slowly forget what happened, which she may or may not forgive you for. Even if she's more likely to never talk to u again, at least you tried. Who knows maybe she'll run back to you and tell you she has a dirty dark secrete also. lol. But yeah if u really want to be with her at least try to make her talk to you. And if she still bitchy about it, move on. At least you know to tell your next girl so you don't get caught up in the same situation.

MisterMachicote / May 27, 2010 3:28PM

Yo man I'm not mad at your hustle we all have to do what we have to do to get by sometimes but knowing that your partner was a sex worker kind of fuc$ everything up and then to find out from family is a whole other problem. I would still reach out to her and tell her your side and why these things happen but don't expect her to get back wit ya.

1YSL / May 26, 2010 11:24PM

Im sorry to say it but it's most likely over dude. To be in a relationship takes a lot of trust and honesty. I'm sure she feels bad, ashamed and angry because she was the last to know. To find out that your boyfriend is gay for pay or whatever is a door closing moment so I'd say leave it alone sorry but if you must, give her some time and try talking to her but if you don't get a response don't try again. That ship has sailed.